How to Romance the Man of Your Dreams
65Most men "date" before committing to a long term relationship. Let's face it, no one is perfect and almost everyone in the dating scene has been hurt or back stabbed one way or another. So, you can't expect a man to wear his heart on his sleeve because he has probably been hurt before. Also, men like to make sure that a woman is compatible for them on all levels. This process should be a natural pace and not rushed.
1) Romance a man by being supportive, know your role. This is easy romance tip to get your man. Relationships should balance each other out. If he spends too much time working, don't bother him about taking time off or forcing him to spend time with you. Most of the time if he comes home from a long day of work he wants to relax and let loose. Don't ask him about work unless he brings it up first. A simple "how was your day" is enough. It's not about the quantity of time you spend with him, its about the "quality" of time you spend with him. If he has goals, be by his side no matter what. If he fails, encourage him to try it again. Do not give him the feeling that you're holding him back from fulfilling his true potential in life.
2) Romance a man by being confident, show it. Men do not like insecure women. The best way to Romance a Man. If he tells you that you're beautiful be humble about it and show appreciation but don't melt in his hands over a simple compliment because he will learn to take advantage of that. Being around a woman with a high self-esteem is a privilege for most men. But, do not overpower that quality as you might come off as intimidating to most men. When the time is right, your man will propose a commitment to you when he feels ready. If you try to rush him, you're just going to scare him away for good. Be emotionally grounded, don't live a roller coaster type of life. Men want someone stable to take along his journey in life. Never act like a "Drama Queen" in front of him.
3) Romance a man by being classy, act with proper manners. It's the way you dress, the way you carry yourself, and the way you talk and react in most conversations. Men love classy women, they are like gold. Simple gestures should be acquainted like a simple scratch of his back, a soft kiss on the cheek, but nothing too "clingy". That comes later. A woman who respects herself is also desired in so many ways. So treat yourself good, carry yourself with pride, and most of all do it with class!
4) Romance a Man by being positive and have fun. You should be open to any suggestions he has even if its not to your taste. Whether its a plan to go to a basketball game or even a comedy show, just do it. This has nothing to do with changing your personality for him. It should not matter on what event he invites you to, just as long as you get to spend time with him is all that matters. Never show signs that your uptight or negative this is a real turn off.
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Thanks Kakarotoni & Keepitreal for the hubs and opinion. Keepitreal and Kakarotoni, it would be nice if every of gents & ladies would have this little but very necessary common sense or knowledge !! -- Life could have been more & more beautiful!!
keepitreal 3 years ago
Hi Kakarotoni,
Great job!
Interesting hub, for sure. There are some good points in there also. HOWEVER, as a guy, my opinion is that we don't want to be romanced. That's a girls territory. Here are five good ways to "romance a guy":
1. Listen to everything he says without talking too terribly much about your friends, family, work, problems, etc. and always laugh at his jokes no matter how bad.
2. Look you best at all times without talking about it or having it take too much time. Hair, weight, teeth, nails, feet, hands, tan, workout, skin, etc. Men are visual. It's not what is said with us, it's how the mouth looks that is saying it.
3. Be easy going: Don't complain, get upset, and bitch about little things. Let stuff roll off your back. Men don't want to be nagged about every little thing. We just want to get along.
4 Don't think we want to spend too much time with your friends and family and that we want you along when we are with our friends. Do some time together and do some time apart.
5. Don't make us spend alot of money to have a crappy time. Too many girls think we are gonna fall in love with them when we have to spend $100 for a dinner and a movie and everything you say is basically boring and you aren't that fun to be with. Surprise a guy sometimes and eat at a cheap place (without the 4 glasses of good wine) and just be fun and interesting. Or suggest takeout and renting a video. We look at that as having a better time for less money.
Do these things and you will "cast your love spell" for sure and he will do anything for you. Then we will be so in love we won't even mind paying for those four glasses of $9 wine.
Oops, this is turning into a hub. sorry so long.